Comments on: sex. http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/ the diary of an unconventional girl, à la mode. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:08:41 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Joe http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/#comment-27473 Joe Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:06:30 +0000 http://apricot-tea.com/?p=2866#comment-27473 It seems nobody has been honest and direct with you. You are fuckin' broken. My girl and I read this and we were so shocked that we couldn't even laugh. Sex is completely instinctive. No one has to make you want it, you're born that way. Whatever is not operating properly within you needs to be fixed ASAP. Clearly your man loves you more than you can understand. To stick with a woman that doesn't like fuckin' you is torture to any man and I promise he's screaming and crying inside. We REALLY do hope for the best but you don't need therapy. You need a fuckin' neurologist because it MUST be a flaw of the brain with you. I know this sounds insulting but a soft-ass ''Beverly Hills'' approach won't suffice. Fix the problem soon or watch him run off with a more pleasing version of you. It seems nobody has been honest and direct with you. You are fuckin’ broken. My girl and I read this and we were so shocked that we couldn’t even laugh. Sex is completely instinctive. No one has to make you want it, you’re born that way. Whatever is not operating properly within you needs to be fixed ASAP. Clearly your man loves you more than you can understand. To stick with a woman that doesn’t like fuckin’ you is torture to any man and I promise he’s screaming and crying inside. We REALLY do hope for the best but you don’t need therapy. You need a fuckin’ neurologist because it MUST be a flaw of the brain with you. I know this sounds insulting but a soft-ass ”Beverly Hills” approach won’t suffice. Fix the problem soon or watch him run off with a more pleasing version of you.

]]> By: clarity http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/#comment-27365 clarity Wed, 20 Jan 2010 03:35:35 +0000 http://apricot-tea.com/?p=2866#comment-27365 I have had similar experiences. You are fortunate enough to have found someone that loves you and is as patient as possible. I have actually had some negative experience because of how I feel about sex and they have made it worse. I wish I could share them with you but I don't want the whole world to see just yet but soon I will because I think my personal story can help others on so many levels. Thank you for posting this. I have had similar experiences. You are fortunate enough to have found someone that loves you and is as patient as possible. I have actually had some negative experience because of how I feel about sex and they have made it worse. I wish I could share them with you but I don’t want the whole world to see just yet but soon I will because I think my personal story can help others on so many levels. Thank you for posting this.

]]> By: Einar http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/#comment-19398 Einar Sun, 18 Oct 2009 17:36:49 +0000 http://apricot-tea.com/?p=2866#comment-19398 You have such a great blend of excellent writing style and brutal honesty... I think that diving deep into Tantra could maybe help you. I tried a weekend course myself and its much different from reading a book. Tantra or not, the main goal is to redefine how we think about and perceive this thing called sexuality. Start by setting aside the old way we were taught how we should feel etc. And start completely fresh. This is the course I tried and I can highly recommend them http://www.ecstaticliving.com/ and here Lokita is blogging about Tantra,, a very good post http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lokita-and-steve-carter/beyond-sexual-techniques_b_273079.html - I am not affiliated in any way to these two,, just wanted to share my experience,, good luck :) ! You have such a great blend of excellent writing style and brutal honesty…

I think that diving deep into Tantra could maybe help you. I tried a weekend course myself and its much different from reading a book. Tantra or not, the main goal is to redefine how we think about and perceive this thing called sexuality. Start by setting aside the old way we were taught how we should feel etc. And start completely fresh.

This is the course I tried and I can highly recommend them
http://www.ecstaticliving.com/

and here Lokita is blogging about Tantra,, a very good post
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lokita-and-steve-carter/beyond-sexual-techniques_b_273079.html

- I am not affiliated in any way to these two,, just wanted to share my experience,, good luck :) !

]]> By: David http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/#comment-14438 David Sun, 30 Aug 2009 17:20:48 +0000 http://apricot-tea.com/?p=2866#comment-14438 I can't remember when, or who from, I first learned about sex. Most likely my parents, but I remember more clearly my Catholic schools drilling chastity and abstinence in my head. There's nothing wrong with that, but I feel like a lot was left out. I had a health teacher last year who, despite the fact that we were in a Catholic school, taught us about birth control on the side. Nothing in detail, but because she thought it was better to tell us to be safe than to tell us things we may never listen to. The media also has a very misconstrued view on sex, I think. I truly hope things work out for you. Just remember to take it slow. It seems that your husband loves you a lot and is very understanding, which is extremely important when going through things like this. (Not that I would know, but it seems like it would be.) And remember that there is nothing wrong with you. You ARE still young. Sex shouldn't be the basis or focus on any relationship, but (in my opinion) a healthy sexual relationship starts with a healthy, loving relationship. Some things just take time... I'll stop rambling now. This was a beautiful entry. :) I can’t remember when, or who from, I first learned about sex. Most likely my parents, but I remember more clearly my Catholic schools drilling chastity and abstinence in my head. There’s nothing wrong with that, but I feel like a lot was left out. I had a health teacher last year who, despite the fact that we were in a Catholic school, taught us about birth control on the side. Nothing in detail, but because she thought it was better to tell us to be safe than to tell us things we may never listen to. The media also has a very misconstrued view on sex, I think.

I truly hope things work out for you. Just remember to take it slow. It seems that your husband loves you a lot and is very understanding, which is extremely important when going through things like this. (Not that I would know, but it seems like it would be.) And remember that there is nothing wrong with you. You ARE still young. Sex shouldn’t be the basis or focus on any relationship, but (in my opinion) a healthy sexual relationship starts with a healthy, loving relationship. Some things just take time… I’ll stop rambling now.

This was a beautiful entry. :)

]]> By: F A K E T R A G E D Y - Version 4.0 http://apricot-tea.com/2009/06/23/sex/#comment-14322 F A K E T R A G E D Y - Version 4.0 Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:42:17 +0000 http://apricot-tea.com/?p=2866#comment-14322 [...] on it yesterday and browsed through some of her previous posts; one that I really, really liked was a post about sex. Not because it’s about sex – but because she exactly said what I think. She talked [...] [...] on it yesterday and browsed through some of her previous posts; one that I really, really liked was a post about sex. Not because it’s about sex – but because she exactly said what I think. She talked [...]

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